'I decided to move out': Boyfriend leaves his pregnant girlfriend, Jen, after her childhood friend, Amanda, convinces her to go through his phone without his permission

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Emma Saven
Aug 12, 2025 4:00 PM EDT

We can only hope that our friends have our best interests at heart and are not trying to sabotage our every move. The intricate ways in which we think, speak, and breathe…This friend, however, seems to get a kick out of doing just that, watching her bestie's castle crumble, one piece at a time. Making sure she has no Prince Charming to pick up the pieces. 

What's the best way to strategize your 'friend's' downfall? Break everything in their life that's not broken. How? You ask…Well, if you would like to follow this woman's steps, proceed by: Moving to your best friend's state, play on all her insecurities whilst she is heavily pregnant and equally sensitive, ensure to feed little lies into her ears about her boyfriend and his loyalties…and watch the foundation crack, tile by tile.

And there you have it, folks: How To Be The Worst Possible Person & An Even Worse Friend Guide 101, see this example for further reference. 

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  • After the trust issues this poor pregnant woman has mimicked from her friend and projected onto her boyfriend, he has decided to call it quits…stating ever so obviously that the two of them need to Google ‘Therapy Near Me’ as soon as possible. It is never exciting to see a single mother on her own, but it is even more infuriating to know that her friend is the one who planted these destructive seeds, sitting there laughing while she’s the root of it all. We'll call her poison ivy…

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    AITA for giving my pregnant GF an ultimatum?

    My GF (Jen) and I have been together for 4 years. Back in April, two great things happened: we found out Jen is pregnant and I closed on a house for us to move
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    into. Our family and friends know about the pregnancy, including Jen's best childhood friend (Amanda). I will admit, I never
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    liked the dynamic between Ananda and Jen, but it did not really affect our relationship since Amanda lived across the country.
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    After finding out about the pregnancy, Amanda decided to move back home (we live in Jen and Amanda's hometown). Amanda has been back since late
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    May and all h I has broke loose. Jen has always felt a little self- conscious in our relationship. I work construction and do
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    personal training. She feels intimidated by small girls, but I have no idea way. She is a se y AF woman with amazing curves.
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    Amanda has done nothing but played into Jen's insecurities and anxieties since being back. Jen and I have never been the tracking location couple or
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    looking through phone's couple. We always considered that a red flag in a relationship. Amanda has convinced Jen that she needs to start doing that. So, she has been
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    looking through my phone on a regular and finding nothing. I have communicated my hurt and frustration and that I think she
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    needs to distance herself from Amanda. She kept rebuffing my concerns. About two weeks ago, Jen again asked to look through my phone.
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    I told her in no uncertain terms that this will be the last time she looks through my phone. If she again sees nothing suspicious, then she needs to agree to go to
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    counseling and distance herself from Amanda. She agreed, looked through my phone, and found nothing suspicious. But, she soon reneged on her promise
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    to do counseling and distancing herself from Amanda. I decided to move out. We are currently on a month-to-month lease in an apartment until
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    renovations get done on the house I bought. I am staying with a friend until the house is ready and then I will move in alone. Jen has asked me to reconsider, I
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    refuse. She will likely need to move in with her mother, which is not ideal given the limited space, which I feel terrible about for my child. AITA?
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    JustDiscoveredS x I'm waiting for Amanda to hit on the poster. "Jen doesn't deserve a personal trainer/construction guy, but I sure do!”
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    TALKTOME0701 NTA Children are raised in close quarters all the time. What you don't want is a child raised in an environment of distrust and suspicion. It sounds like she has more respect for her best friend than she does for you. Why doesn't she move in with her?
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    Life Temperature2506 NTA. She needs to throw Amanda in the garbage.
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    Quiet-Patient5458 NTA. This is ruining your relationship, and if she is unwilling to see the damage, then she needs that ultimatum. Hopefully, she soon sees what Amanda has done to your relationship
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    bookie412 NTA but her relationship with Amanda sounds really concerning. Playing with a pregnant woman's image of herself and her insecurities is insane. I think you both need couples counseling so someone unbiased can play mediator while you guys talk and I think she needs personal counseling so she can hear actual helpful advice from someone other than Amanda
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    MaryEFriendly I would message your ex and tell her she gave Amanda exactly what she wanted: for your relationship to be over, because she was clearly jealous of what you had. No one who is your true friend encourages this kind of insane bulls t. She doesnt have her best interests at heart and never did.
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    Lightness_Being This theme is ancient - the ancient Greeks wrote about Psyche losing her husband because of her sisters' jealousy. Amanda is one of those people who hate seeing their friends do better than them and just had to try to break you up.
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